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Home arrow Reviews arrow Mind/Body/Spirit arrow Are You in the Mood? - Book Review
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Book Reviews - Women's Fiction
Written by Deborah Bivens   
Are You in the Mood?Are You in the Mood?, by Stephanie Lehmann

Right from the get-go, after receiving the book, I was intrigued. The title, the book cover, the summary on the back all enticed me into diving into the book. I read the first five chapters in a short amount of time and was sucked into the story because what I had read on the back seemed awfully familiar to me. "Will my real life please stand up?" is the gist of it. I found myself not able to put the book down and I wanted to finish it before my 10 month old woke up from my lap!

What was so familiar to me about this story was that I was reading my life, my feelings-my story! Well for the most part that is. Right down to the Ross Reports and headshots and getting pregnant and feeling like your dream is slipping away. Although much of Camille's happenings didn't happen to me exactly, I could reminisce about my "previous life" and concur so accurately with the feelings the character had.

Camille Chaplin is an out of work actress in NYC who struggles to make a career, has doubts about marriage, has a rocky relationship with her mother, and a father whoÌs no longer alive she's still trying to get approval from. As the title suggests, some of the story is about sex after baby arrives and Camille just doesn't want to have any of it.  But the real story is about the life she has as opposed to what she wants. There are three "people" for every one person. The person they think they are, the person others see them as, and who they really are.

Despite identifying a lot with the lead character and her situation, I did find some of it improbable and unlikely such things could happen. It almost seemed as though I was reading a Hollywood plot for a Sex in the City movie. Although Camille had lots of adventures during the course of the book, it was almost dreamlike in a way as she was able to get in and out of her situations. Another problem I had was the character of her boyfriend turned husband. He seemed too one-dimensional and affable. I've never heard of any psychiatrists who didn't have problems of their own. The surprise stalker in the bushes just seemed over-the-top and as if it were too easy a solution for Camille to get out of her situation. And lastly, the author describes Camille hand-expressing milk into a cup, not a bottle, on several occasions. She never sterilized anything, and quite frankly, I've never heard of any mother expressing milk for her baby in that way anymore. There are lots of wonderful pumps out there for mothers. I donÌt think it makes the book any less interesting, just not as believable. I found it to be quite a page-turner and wanted to find out what happened next.

All in all, I enjoyed the book and will recommend it to others. I would have liked to have a grittier story and a less neatly tied up ending. The things that really stuck out for me are the feelings described of going through motherhood, breastfeeding, and holding off an acting career. Ms. Lehmann so accurately described the mental anguishes one goes through and I surely can identify with all of those.
 


Copyright 2004

 
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