A diva accepts herself as she is right now and strives to be even better.
She doesn't change who she is to fit someone else's idea of what she ought to be.
She reaches for her own ideal sense of whom she wants to be.
She's strong; she's courageous; she's creative.
Fed up with forking out for the latest piece of over-hyped
plastic? Answer "What can we do now Mum?" by making toys
from items you will already have around the house.
Shops. Save all your empty grocery cartons for a week
or so and you'll soon have a shop any aspiring grocer
would be proud of. Gluing down the flaps makes cereal
boxes, jelly packets etc. look unopened. Clothes, shoes,
and toys can all be used as "stock". Paper bags and real
or play money add to the fun.
Paper balls. When the kids keep arguing suggest that
they throw something at each other! Paper balls are easily
scrunched up from torn out magazine pages to make "ammunition".
When it's time to tidy up, stand the waste paper basket
in the middle of the room and see who can throw the most
in. A rolled up magazine makes a good "bat" too.
Doctors/Nurses. A roll of white toilet tissue makes
this game much more fun as Dads, Grans, teddies or dolls
are mummified before your eyes. Plastic medicine spoons
and cardboard box hospital beds for toys are extra props
that make the game last longer.
Tubes. Cardboard tubes from kitchen roll or foil make
instant telescopes for sailors or pirates, or tunnels
to roll marbles through. Babies love to watch things disappear
then reappear out of the bottom. Don't leave them alone
with the cardboard tube though as they will probably suck
it.
Cardboard boxes must be about the best free toys you
can get hold of. Push in the ends of large ones to make
tunnels and caves to crawl through. Draw on windows and
doors with felt tip pens to make a house, add a flag and
portholes for a boat or paper plates and a steering wheel
for a car.
Miniature gardens. The foil trays that pies and prepared
foods arrive in make lovely containers for miniature gardens.
The children can enjoy hunting around the park or garden
for twigs to make trees, moss for a lawn, stones to arrange
as a rockery or a waterfall. Keep twigs or stones where
you want them with a little blue tack or plasticine. Add
toy people or animals and maybe a little water if the
container is watertight. This can be a very creative and
enjoyable exercise if you have children of very different
age groups to entertain. A variation is to use play sand
(not builder's sand - it stains everything yellow) to
make a beach scene, maybe adding shells, stones and a
blue paper sea.
Paper puppets. A picture of anything - colourful bird,
clown's face, animal or cartoon character, carefully cut
out by an adult and stuck to the top of a strip of card
about five inches long and one and a half inches wide
becomes a very easily made puppet. These give such pleasure
and are so easy to make that you will probably end up
with dozens of them. Magazine pictures can be stuck on
to folded card to make theatre set background and wings.
Potato prints. After cutting a potato in half, draw
on a simple shape. A triangle, circle or star perhaps.
Cut away the rest of the potato, leaving a shape to dip
into paint and print on to paper.
Skittles. Skittles can be improvised from large plastic
cola or lemonade bottles. A little sand or water in the
bottom makes them more stable. A good game for learning
to count.
Dens. Building a den must be one of the most memorable
parts of childhood as we all seem to recall the bliss
of blankets draped over the airing rack in the garden
or over the backs of chairs indoors. Even today's sophisticated
kids seem to find the thought much more exciting than
just erecting the shop bought plastic play house. I think
the secret is to give structural advice about making the
thing stay upright, but let the children do as much as
possible themselves. Really large boxes of the type that
washing machines and fridges come in can be had for the
asking from the big electrical goods retailers and are
useful for rooms within dens. Indoors, one of the simplest
dens can be made by throwing a large sheet or duvet over
a table. Cushions, torches,biscuits and comics or books
will all be needed at the housewarming.
String. Children find a million uses for string, from
tying up toy "baddies" to making a washing line for doll's
clothes. It can be tied to chair legs to make a jump,
dipped into paint and twirled on to paper, plaited, knitted
with, made into a parachute or mobile, used as a measuring
aid or for learning how to tie shoelaces and bows. It
need never linger in the kitchen drawer again.
Sewing cards. Stick a picture on to a postcard or draw
a simple duck, car or teddy shape. With a bodkin needle
push holes around the outline of your design about one
inch apart. Using brightly coloured wool in the bodkin
or a long bootlace, thread in and out of the holes.
Stilts. You need to do a little drilling for this one.
Take two strong tins, coffee or clean paint tins are ideal,
and drill a hole about one inch from the top on opposite
sides of the tin. Insert a length of string and knot securely.
Check that the handle is at a comfortable length for the
child before knotting the other side. These are always
very popular, but never leave young children alone with
them especially near stairs or steps.
Cafes. Children's tea sets are a handy prop for this
game, but a picnic set or microwave cookware is just as
good. Giving the waiter/waitress a little notebook and
pencil to take orders and making a tall white hat from
a cylinder of paper for the chef will add realism. Sit
dolls and teddies around as well as willing Aunts and
Grannies for extra customers.
Playdough. Mix together two cups of flour, one cup
of salt, one cup of water, one tablespoon of oil and a
few drops of food colouring for an easy to make dough
that will keep for about three weeks if you wrap it in
polythene and keep it in the fridge. All you have to do
is knead the mixture well. Divide the mixture up first
if you have more than one colour available.
Obstacle course. An obstacle course can turn a rainy
day into an adventure. Use whatever you have available.
A bench to walk the plank, cushion stepping stones across
shark infested seas, through a cardboard box tunnel, up
a chair mountain or through a duvet cave. The wilder your
imagination the more your children will love it.
Easy boats. Recycle your empty margarine cartons. Use
them as boats for the bath or paddling pool. These are
so easy that even very young children can help to make
them. Cut out triangular sail shapes from white or coloured
paper. Make a small hole at the top and bottom of the
sail so that you can push through a straw to make a mast.
Let the child fix this to the bottom of a clean margarine
tub with a lump of blue tack or plasticine. They sail
extremely well and will even take a couple of toy people
on an exciting cruise.
Capes. Nurses, kings, queens, Batman, Superman - they
all need capes or cloaks. Luckily they are easy to make
by attaching ribbon ties to an oblong of fabric in the
colour of your child's favourite caped character. Keep
an eye on them though as anything tied around the neck
could be dangerous.
Leaf art. Collect leaves and draw around them. This
is fun for little ones and an educational tree identification
game for older children. Colour in the details with crayons
or paints. The leaves could then be stuck on to paper
collage style or dipped into paint and then pressed firmly
on to paper for a lovely leaf print.
Make a puzzle. Stick a favourite picture on to card
and allow to dry with a heavy book on top. Cut into pieces,
how many depending on the age of the child, for an almost
instant and personal puzzle.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR:
Colleen Moulding is a freelance writer from England where she
has had many features on parenting, childcare, travel, the Internet
and many more subjects published in national magazines and newspapers.
She has also published a variety of women's and children's fiction.
Her work frequently appears at many sites on the Internet and
at her own site for women and children All That Women Want.com
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