Any guy who tells you some woman is \'obsessed\' with him is already in my books a total loser. Years ago I dated a guy who told me his ex-girlfriend was \'obsessed\' with him and had at times stalked him. At first I believed him. Then when I found out he was also contacting her, I called her myself and found out they were seeing each other. He\'d even given us both the same Christmas presents. He has also told her, after she saw a birthday card I gave him, that I was this girl he once dated who was \'obsessed\' with him... talk about make my blood boil. He also told a mutual friend that another girl altogether was \'obsessed\' with him and I realised it was such a ruse to explain away phonecalls or cards, or messages from the other woman by acting that this other woman was some crazy obsessive person... and implied he hadnt of course encouraged any contact.
Instinctively you can pick up on liars, which I did, and follow your intuition. After that it depends on your self worth, do you want to be played around on ? If not... tell him you obsessively want to dump him
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