Yes, I fear rejection by guys that I\'m interested in.  It sucks.  It hurts my feelings and makes me angry at the same time.  

But on the other hand, I also fear attracting guys that I\'m not interested in.    There is no nice way of indicating that you\'re not interested in someone who is trying to get your attention.

So the whole process is a mess.

 

I feel better.  The ones I\'m dealing with are usually just alcoholics, or mama\'s boys, or alcoholic mama\'s boys.