Maybe that's something that can be brought up to the school. It seems to me that if they are issuing it for home use the parents have a say-so in how they monitor it, KWIM?
I emailed the computer teacher about my concerns, and he has agreed to let me "test" a parental monitoring program on DS's Macbook - I just have to allow him to install it. However, now I am having trouble finding a good remote monitoring program for MAC!
Can anyone recommend one? It seems like most of the software out there is PC only!