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« on: June 12, 2006, 03:06:24 AM » |
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Anyone else have this problem? My SO can never just give me a nice, deep massage without it leading to s*x. We went to the gym a few times over the weekend and I could have used a nice massage last night, but nooooooo. I gave him a nice deep massage for his achey muscles. I feel like I have to go to a massage therepist instead. I tell SO that I like nice deep massages, but I never get them. He says he can\'t because he will automatically want s*x if he touches me that way. SHEESH!  |
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Lara
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« Reply #1 on: June 12, 2006, 05:02:24 PM » |
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lol!! I hear ya!  |
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JennR
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« Reply #2 on: June 12, 2006, 05:40:36 PM » |
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Lara wrote:lol!! I hear ya! Ditto! Men just dont seem to be able to \"moderate\" sensationa like us women can! 
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abbiegrrl
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« Reply #3 on: June 12, 2006, 07:52:40 PM » |
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Sheesh. MIne will go there if he finds out that I have freshly shaved legs. LIKE that\'s the only reason a woman ever does that??!!
SHEESH.
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Free2BMe
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« Reply #4 on: June 13, 2006, 02:28:34 AM » |
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Thanks, Ladies. Sometimes I just need my sore muscles massaged deeply after a run or workout, but I just can\'t seem to get that... some times, but not always. SO and i talk about it... he says he just can\'t touch me like that without getting aroused... I say \"practice some self control\". It\'s to the point where I want to pay $100 for an hour massage at the local massage place. I feel that\'s a waste of money, but a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do!
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Lara
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« Reply #5 on: June 13, 2006, 04:04:05 AM » |
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I know the solution for me has been to compromise with SO and say how about we have sex first and then I get a deep muscle massage.
It\'s a win-win :laugh:
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Jill
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« Reply #6 on: June 13, 2006, 08:13:26 AM » |
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DH always wants some after working out, so it could have something to do with his adrenaline and testosterone flowing from the gym. Of course, I always think it\'s because of the women at the gym.  lol But that\'s low self esteem talking! I really believe that they get excited because of the workout and whatever juice is flowing through them. I\'m sure he enjoyed seeing you work out too! The gym does something to men in that department... :laugh: |
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Free2BMe
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« Reply #7 on: June 13, 2006, 09:25:11 AM » |
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Lara wrote:I know the solution for me has been to compromise with SO and say how about we have sex first and then I get a deep muscle massage.
It\'s a win-win :laugh: Okay... I guess the frustrating part is the SEX at all. We have sex A LOT, but that\'s mostly for him. He is HIGHLY sexual and even when we had it 2-3 times a day for many days... he still wasn\'t totally satisfied. I\'m happy with 2-3 times a week and that would just kill him if we only had it 2-3 times a week. I want to say no more, but fear he\'ll get upset and look elsewhere.
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Free2BMe
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« Reply #8 on: June 13, 2006, 09:26:32 AM » |
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Jill wrote:DH always wants some after working out, so it could have something to do with his adrenaline and testosterone flowing from the gym. Of course, I always think it\'s because of the women at the gym. lol But that\'s low self esteem talking! I really believe that they get excited because of the workout and whatever juice is flowing through them. I\'m sure he enjoyed seeing you work out too! The gym does something to men in that department... :laugh: My SO wants it all the time. Lately I have to sleep on my stomach or cover my breasts with my arms because I wake up to him rubbing them all the time. I LOVE my sleep and it interferes. LOL
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abbiegrrl
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« Reply #9 on: June 13, 2006, 06:39:10 PM » |
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Hey, Free, it sounds liike he\'s got an addiction to your....uh, stuff.  |
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Free2BMe
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« Reply #10 on: June 14, 2006, 03:15:56 AM » |
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abbiegrrl wrote:Hey, Free, it sounds liike he\'s got an addiction to your....uh, stuff. Yes... and I know I *should* be happy. LOL 
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Jill
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« Reply #11 on: June 14, 2006, 07:41:12 PM » |
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lol YEAH you should!! I\'m jealous!
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abbiegrrl
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« Reply #12 on: June 14, 2006, 07:44:33 PM » |
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Um well.... Not really. BTDT. Guys like that tend to be rather unavailable emotionally. Or at least that\'s what I\'ve heard. PM me if you want to chat. abbie |
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