would you tell the guys you date that you\'re married??...if you fell in love and had to confess later on, it could get ugly....
If you guys don\'t really love each other \"like that\" (as husband and wife) just get the divorce and be best friends....believe me, if I had done that, I\'d have saved myself a lot of grief (7.5 years of it!!)
Welcome to the Tribe, by the way!
