Thank you everyone for your thoughts and prayers.
It is really tough, because he wont even talk about it and is being very stubborn about his treatment options. I fear that he is in some denial - thinking if he just pretends it is not happening then he can put off some really tough decisions pertaining to what treatment methods are the most viable.
Actually, I have to say my whole family is acting that way, and it is kind of making me crazy! My parents invited all of "the adults" in the family to meet them at thier country club Friday night for a Martini. I assumed that he wanted to talk to us about it, but nobody even acknowledged the big Elephant in the room... I din't know what to say either...
Anyway, thank you all for your support during this. I will keep you posted as we find out more after he has his bone scan next week.
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