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January 07, 2009, 01:33:12 PM
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Question: If you are/have been/will be married, what last name do you use?
My maiden name - 2 (33.3%)
My husband's last name - 4 (66.7%)
I hyphenated our last names - 0 (0%)
Another name altogether! - 0 (0%)
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« on: October 26, 2006, 01:49:55 PM »

Am I the only one who kept her maiden name?  Just curious!
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« Reply #1 on: October 26, 2006, 02:45:48 PM »

My father is Ukranian, so my maiden last name was long and difficult to say/spell.  I've been waiting my entire life to get rid of it!  It's terrible to say, but I was ashamed of that name from grade school on; people laughed when they heard it, it was very easy to make fun of and whenever I had to tell someone I had to spell it or they wouldn't understand.  For me it was a name that was filled with humilation and anger, I was made fun of for having that name for my entire childhood.  When I begged my parents to change it my father was furious and hurt because I was not proud of our name.  sad
My maiden name was Jill Taratuta, my current last name is Hoover.  There are no questions or laughter when I say the name Hoover, it's ordinary and I love it!  I will never change back.
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« Reply #2 on: October 26, 2006, 06:07:21 PM »

My maiden name is Trump - and no, I'm kidding.   

I am very traditional and had no problems changing my name when I got married.  Plus, there's a big part of me that was relieved to not have to use my maiden name anymore. 

I was teased a great deal when I was a kid and quietly took the teasing until one day in 5th grade I snapped.  There was a chant among some of the boys in my class, "Ann Trump has a bump on her rump" and I had had enough.  So I slugged one of the boys (first name "Rand" <--- odd name, the irony hadn't escaped me even then) with my Starsky & Hutch lunchbox.  Gave him a bloody nose   devil  He was fine but left me alone after that.  So did all of the other boys.

And yes, we're related to you-know-who but distantly. 

I did shamelessly use my last name often when making dinner reservations in NYC way back when, too.  That was the only time I didn't mind my name.

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« Reply #3 on: November 30, 2006, 12:47:27 PM »

With my pending marriage, I thought about keeping my maiden name. When my finacee and I talked about it he expressed how much it will mean to him to have me take his name, so I have decided that it's worth it to me to change it.  It's funny; the first time I got married it wasn't even a consideration.  I had always expected to change my name.  This time I thought about the hassle factor, and my identity issues (i.e., staying myself as a married person instead of becoming who I think I'm supposed to be).
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« Reply #4 on: November 30, 2006, 08:33:09 PM »

I was glad to take mu husbands name - for several reasons:

1. I have lived in the same small suburban town most of my life, so it was nice to go "incognito", if someone did not know me well enough to know my married name, then they could not look me up!

2. In this small town, my husband's Italian family is very well respected and I was honored to become a part of that.

3. It makes life a whole lot easier when the parents and kids share the same name:
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