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« on: February 07, 2006, 07:55:39 AM »

It was my 31st Birthday this weekend.  I went out with a bang. I went dancing and after all my friends buying me shots I was pretty hammered.  I met a young stud on the dance floor and danced the night away this young fellow....BTW...I told him I was 25.  He was younger to say the least...but old enough to get into the bar.  We danced, we kissed, we laughed.  At the end of the night I gave him my number.  I\'d say 99% of the time I don\'t get a call. I assumed he would forget.  

Well, he didn\'t.  He\'s called, he\'s sent text messages.  But he also straight out asked me if I was looking for a relationship or just fun because he didn\'t want to hurt anyone.  Once it was agreed it was just a fun time I didn\'t feel so bad about lying about my age.  I did have one panic moment when we were dancing...he looked at me and asked are you sure you\'re 25?!?  I froze, then he proceeded to say because you have the energy of a 18 year old!!  

My girlfriends say they would be flattered to be showered by this attention and since we\'ve both said it\'s just a fun time that there is no harm in going out a few times?!?  What do you think?? The guy is a little stud muffin.
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« Reply #1 on: February 08, 2006, 06:07:10 AM »

If it\'s just going to be a few times and just for kicks, I don\'t see a problem.  If it did   start turning into something more, you\'d need to be honest about your age eventually, IMO.
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« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2006, 07:31:38 AM »

Who am I kidding...it\'s all fun and games till someone gets hurt.  It\'s ironic....he\'s into me...he\'s calling, wants to see me, etc.  while this other guy I was interested in who IS my age acts like a 6th grader around me.  He\'s always giving me a hard time and teasing.  I should refer him to the young guy for lessons on how to pursue a lady.  GRRR!!
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« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2006, 04:21:04 PM »

Lety2475 wrote:
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Once it was agreed it was just a fun time I didn\'t feel so bad about lying about my age.  I did have one panic moment when we were dancing...he looked at me and asked are you sure you\'re 25?!?  I froze, then he proceeded to say because you have the energy of a 18 year old!!  


 rotf    not worthy   Way to go!  

Sounds like a great way to start the year off.  I say enjoy your time together.  He made it clear he\'s not looking for a relationship, and you\'re not either, so  thumbs up  thumbs up  two thumbs up.
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« Reply #4 on: February 09, 2006, 07:42:12 AM »

Saw BT last night.  He\'s so cute.  He just makes me laugh and not to mention he\'s a great kisser!  It\'s not like it\'s Demi and Ashton age difference it\'s more Cameron and Justin.  

Men obviously don\'t feel bad when they date younger women!

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« Reply #5 on: February 20, 2006, 06:18:03 AM »

BT is slowing fading but wow, what a crazy week!  Seems he got my groove back on.    I went out with 3 different people last week!  Would have been 4 but one date got stuck at work.  I guess the ego boost did wonders!  It\'s all just fun and I\'d hope at least one would come out as something more than a date.  But I can\'t complain, I\'m having fun.  

I really hated my 20\'s but my 30\'s are certainly being good to me so far.
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« Reply #6 on: February 20, 2006, 06:44:50 AM »

Way to Go!!!...
I guess the good thing about dating a younger man in a society that thinks that\'s weird is that the ego boost is REALLY high!! LOL! (I should know!  :o )
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« Reply #7 on: March 17, 2006, 07:05:11 PM »

What a difference a month makes.  Last month I was flying high with the BT and now nothing.  It died it\'s natural death.  Went back to try the on line dating thing with people my own age.  

My friend has been encouraging me to get out there.  It\'s an adventure at the very least she said.  This is after I\'ve heard her countless first date stories.  

Tonight I was supposed to meet someone new that I had been chatting with.  I\'ve been getting a mixed vibe.  I really was on the fence and today before I got ready I was really conflicted about it.  He hadn\'t called to confirm our plans.  Finally I called him about an hour before and he answered the phone.  He was at the bookstore and running a few errands before we met.  Ok so maybe he will be there.  8 o\'clock roll around and I get there.  We are meeting in front of a movie theatre.  There are lots of people around, mostly groups so it won\'t be hard to spot a single guy standing around.  8:04, 8:10, 8:10, 8:17...I call him to see if he\'s running late...VOICE MAIL...Grrr..what the heck.  Ok, 8:20, 8:28, 8:32....I\'m out.  

That\'s just not cool.  I\'ve never been stood up but I don\'t like how it feels!  Time to get back in the saddle.  More adventures in dating to come.  I guess it was good to find out he\'s a flake now rather than later. pulling hair
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